A Missing Daughter -----Can We Help Find Her!!!!

Wednesday, March 18, 2009


Sgt Ravi Shankar of the IAF was posted in Car Nicobar in the year 2004. On 26th of December that year his family fell victim to the Tsunami that struck the eastern coast.He along with his wife and two children were washed away in the deadly waters. Reaching out his wife managed to cling onto a tree but his small son had swallowed too much water and passed away in her arms. Ravi also in desperation to swim lost grip of his daughter APURVA`s hand.

She was washed away and was never to be found again,until one day they came to know of her being sighted at a relief camp. On contacting the authorities they came to know that this little girl was abducted from the relief camp and was missing again. Since then Sgt Ravi Shankar has been travelling to Chennai every year with the hope of seeing his daughter. He has been publishing MISSING columns in major daily's in Chennai.One of the major newspapers charged him a whopping amount of Rs.12000
for a 4 X 4 cm ad(that too on the fourth page).

Apurva`s picture with her brother taken in 2004 is posted here.People who own there personal blog pages may please post this girl's picture there as it could be of significant help. In case any news of any nature is found regarding Apurva please drop in a mail at the below mentioned mail id's or the following address.

1. James mathew( 123.mathew@gmail.com )
2. Amit kumar ( amitkumarmajor@hotmail.com )
3. khem chandra pan ( khemchandrapan@yahoo.com )

Mr. RAVI SHANKAR
SMQ – 17/2
AF VAYUSENABAD
TUGLAKABAD
NEW DELHI-110062

Phone no - 09868763263

Received by email.

It's That Time Of The Year Again

Tuesday, March 17, 2009
Summer is here and most kids across the country are either done with their exams or are almost through with them , with the exception of those giving their boards this year. This is also the time a parent dreads the most( atleast I do ) as you have to think of different ways in which to keep your kid occupied. You would not want a kid running around on overdrive, with no outlet to channelise his/her energies.

Summer camps are the ideal option here...the kid is occupied, meets new friends and learns new things. Visit the B2H2 forum to find information on camps running in your city.

Work From Home Job Leads

This section of the blog has been permanently moved to the B2H2 Forum. The listings are updated almost daily. So please visit the forum through this link

http://clubbraveheart.forumotion.net/work-from-home-job-opportunities-f4/

to see the latest posts on work from home job opportunities.

Marching Up The Catwalk

Saturday, March 14, 2009


GLAMOUR, NOT GUNFIRE: (From left) Lieutenant Colonel Ankita Srivastava, Wing Commander Manisha Rajput and Major Seema Dagar at the Gladgrags Mrs India beauty pageant at the Spring Mills, Bombay Dyeing compound, Wadala.
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Lt Colonel, Major and Wing Commander want to rediscover their feminity

It's the catwalk instead of combat as three women in India's armed forces are set to take part in the Gladrags Mrs India beauty pageant to be held at the Spring Mills, Bombay Dyeing compound in Wadala this evening. The contest is for married women only.

Major Seema Dagar, who served in the Indian army from 1997 to 2007, says, she is here, "Because I want to expand my horizons, have a different experience." Major Dagar, who now works as a manager at a corporate firm in New Delhi, adds, "Army life was so disciplined, so tough walk like a man, talk like a man. Sometimes, I thought I had lost my womanhood there I am here to reinvent myself and rediscover my femininity."

Her words find an echo in Wing Commander Manisha Rajput, who is posted in the Western Air Command of the IAF at New Delhi. Said Rajput, "I may be an air warrior as we are termed, but I am also a woman. I decided to enjoy the glamour, colour and femininity of this world during my annual leave."

Lieutenant Colonel Ankita Srivastava from Allahabad finished 14 years of service in the army last year, the maximum that women officers are allowed to serve in the Indian army. Srivastava says she had won a Mrs Allahabad contest earlier which motivated her to participate in this one.

She was part of Operation Kargil and Operation Parakram that took place after the attack on the Parliament. She is now working for lady officers getting pension for their service in the force. "I am walking the corridors of power for that, though today I will walk the ramp," she explains.

She laughs and adds, "Both my sons (9 and 6 years) are flying down to Mumbai to watch me in the pageant.

They used to say, "All the other mammas look like mammas. Only our mother is more like a papa. We have two papas in the house."

Source : Mid-Day,
Pic: Sameer Markande

From The Archives : Up Ahead With The Rest

Thursday, March 12, 2009
Permanent Commission For Ladies in Indian Defence Forces

The chiefs of the Indian army, navy and the air force have stated that soon women too will start getting hired as full-fledged officers just like men. Air Marshal Sumit Mukherjee, air officer personnel at the Indian Air Force headquarters, informed that the very first batch of such women officers will probably be ready by 2013 after undergoing four years of training.

He added that they will have tenure of 20 years, which can be increased further on the basis of one’s post and performance. A formal decision on this will be made in a couple of months’ time. The permission for a permanent commission for women for 10 years was rejected by authorities in 2005. Permanent commission deals with women officers taking on combat roles, which comprise undertaking and guiding soldiers into the battlefield.

The decision to allow permanent commission to women no doubt will be celebrated by those who advocate equal rights for both sexes. But there are matters that transcend women related issues like culture, gender, principles and so on, governing battlefield and cross-border and hostage situations which need to be properly thought out before taking the final decision

Source : Indiaserver

From the Archives : The Making Of An Army Wife - by Gurvinder Sohi


TEN years ago, I got married to a young army Captain and as such wedded the ideals, traditions and norms of this vast and prestigious organisation that is an institution of life in itself. My experience are perhaps that of every second lady in the army but the very similarity of our circumstances is what binds us together in shared kinship. We become part of one big fraternity of the Indian Army wives.

Indeed, the wife of an Indian Army officer is strong and dynamic. She keeps an enviable house, runs an efficient household, often singlehandedly brings up children, copes with frequent separations, and is always on the move physically and intellectually facing new challenges each day.

This multi-faceted personality of the army wife was unveiled to me phase-by-phase as I personally experienced it. The first year of marriage was dream-like I was welcomed as a bride in the unit. There was a wonderful round of dinner parties at the unit officers’ houses. I set up home for the first time and started returning the dinners — a nervous cook and hostess the first couple of times but improving in confidence with every meal I hosted, thanks to the example of housewives around whom I tried to emulate. I watched and learnt from the ladies of the unit and tried to mould myself accordingly. Everybody was encouraging and appreciative and as eager to share tips and information as I was to learn from them. I learnt the perfect art of entertaining, from adorning tables with flower arrangements to exotic cuisine.

Then life took a turn and after a year of togetherness, my husband got along his posting to the newly raised Rashtriya Rifles. He moved to the Valley and I packed and moved back to Chandigarh, the home of my parents and in-laws. Now I experienced what life meant to an officer’s wife during a field posting. I spent a few months adjusting once again to living in a joint family. Being in the family way, I went for my routine check-ups to the Command Hospital with my father or father-in-law. I met a lot of young ladies sailing in the same boat as me.

Then tragedy struck and I had a miscarriage. The world seemed to collapse around me as shock, distress and disbelief set in. My husband’s leave got extended to full two months. I saw my immediate family share our sorrow and even my bigger family joined in. Letters poured in from all unit officers and ladies — both, from the parent unit and the RR unit and they grieved with us. Clearly, the out-of-sight-and-out-of-mind maxim is unheard of in the Army.

When my husband’s leave ended, he returned to his unit and all of a sudden, I was left to cope with life on my own. Still raw with the loss of our first one, I picked up a job. I learnt driving, volunteered to run errands for the family and began to pick up the threads of life again. I realised that there must be such times in all army wives lives when they were left to face good things and bad on their own and I am no exception. Everything the army taught us was for such a day — to stand strong and upright in the face of adversity and not be a weak person, a liability, a source of worry for a husband far away, performing his duty in difficult and dangerous circumstances. Isn’t that what we motivated our soldiers’ wives to be?

Today, I am the mother of two wonderful children, have seen togetherness and separation; coped with the second field posting with greater confidence and competence than the first and am mentally prepared for a third one when it comes. In the meantime, I have taken a few years off from teaching to bring up my kids during their first few formative years and imbibe in them the values so essential to our role as responsible parents, very often having to be the mother and father both!

Life in the Army has revealed to me my strength as a woman, has taught me to overcome my weaknesses and not just exist but live life meaningfully. Each day is a challenge as I try to become everything an army wife aims to be — a strong person, a caring human being, a good mother, a supportive wife, a gracious hostess, an efficient housewife, all of it leading ultimately to becoming a complete woman. In fact, being a complete woman is what the Indian Army wife is all about.

Source : The Tribune

To Fly Or Not To Fly

Report slams high-flying military first wives

The first ladies of the army, air force and navy have gatecrashed into an exclusive club of VIPs entitled to fly in the Indian Air Force’s aircraft. A Public Accounts Committee (PAC) report tabled in Parliament on Wednesday has revealed that the wives of the service chiefs are misusing the IAF’s VIP aircraft fleet.

It points out that presidents of AWWA (Army Wives Welfare Association) and AFWWA (Air Force Wives’ Welfare Association) were not even covered under the category of persons entitled to use the VIP aircraft. The defence ministry has been told to conduct a probe and submit a report in three months. The IAF has modified eight aircraft for VIP role without government approval despite having a separate Communications squadron for VIP use.

It consists of two Boeing 737s, three Boeing business jets, five Embraer luxury jets, seven Avros and six helicopters. The fleet is primarily meant for the President, Vice-President and PM. The PAC report revealed that the modified aircraft were utilised predominantly by senior officers, AWWA and AFWWA presidents and their accompanying staff. This bled the state exchequer of Rs 75 crore. The committee has asked the defence ministry to furnish the expenditure incurred on flying non-entitled passengers over the last 10 years.

Sources in the IAF defended the first ladies saying they had only accompanied the service chiefs and never made exclusive use of VIP aircraft. “No additional costs were incurred on these flights,” said a senior officer, not wishing to be named.

Source : HT

Women In The Armed Forces - by Maj Gen (Retd) Mrinal Suman, AVSM, VSM, PhD

Monday, March 9, 2009
The recent debate about the entry of women officers in the armed forces has been highly ill- informed and subjective in nature. People have taken stands and expressed opinion without analysing the matter in its entirety. It is imprudent to consider it as an issue of equality of sexes or gender bias or even women’s liberation. It is also not a question of conquering the so-called ‘last male bastion’. That would amount to trifling a matter that concerns the well-being and the war-potential of a nation’s armed forces.

Armed forces have been constituted with the sole purpose of ensuring defence of the country and all policy decisions should be guided by this overriding factor. All matters concerning defence of the country have to be considered in a dispassionate manner. No decision should be taken which even remotely affects the cohesiveness and efficiency of the military. Concern for equality of sexes or political expediency should not influence defence policies.

A World Scan

India has limited experience as regards induction of women in the armed forces. The first batch had joined in 1992. Therefore, our knowledge of the complexities and long-term effects of the issues involved is highly limited. On the other hand, women have been serving in the militaries of developed countries for a long time. These countries have acquired a deep understanding of all the issues involved.

The United States

The United States is considered a pioneer and a trend-setter as regards induction of women in the services. There are approximately 200,000 American women on active duty in the US armed forces. They constitute nearly 20 percent of its strength. Women are also participating in Iraq operations in large numbers, albeit in support functions as they are forbidden to be placed in direct ground combat with enemy. They, however, are assigned ‘combat support’ duties on voluntary basis.

Prior to November 1975, if women became pregnant, they were given the option to terminate pregnancy or seek discharge. A number of important steps were initiated during President Clinton’s time. Women were permitted to join as combat aircraft pilots and could also be assigned for prolonged duty on combat naval ships. The scope of combat-risk assignments for women was redefined to open additional appointments to them.

Israel

Though Israel has conscription for women (as well as men), a large number of them are exempted for various reasons. Women are generally not allotted active battle field duties. They serve in many technical and administrative posts to release men for active duty. Although they make excellent instructors as well, most women occupy lower and middle level appointments. Only a handful reach senior ranks.

Britain

A major enlargement of women’s role in the British armed forces took place in early 1990s. A number of new duties were assigned to them. Today, 71% of all jobs in the Navy, 67% in the Army and 96% in the Air Force are tenable by women. Women are primarily excluded from the duties which require battling enemy at close quarters.

Out of the total strength of 196,650 of the three services, women number 17,900 (3,670 officers and 14,230 other ranks). Thus they constitute 9.1% of the total strength, 11.2% of the officer cadre and 8.7% of the other ranks. Service-wise, the Navy has a women population of 9.4%, the Army 7.1% and the Air Force 11.9%.

Canada

For Canadian women it has been a long and slow struggle to be part of the armed forces. For over a hundred years, women were considered suitable only for nursing duties. However, things changed rapidly during the recent past and today women account for close to 13 percent of the total strength of the Canadian forces. Women are permitted in all corps and can rise upto senior decision-making levels.

Bulgaria

Bulgaria has adopted a highly flexible model. As per the law, women in Bulgarian Army are appointed to professional military service in the Armed Forces on appointments proposed by the Chief of the General Staff. They have equal training standards and equal professional rights as men. Women constitute about 7 percent of the total force.

Germany

Though established in 1955, the Bundeswehr allowed women to join medical units and musical bands in 1975. It was only in 2001 that women won the right to join the Bundeswehr as soldiers. Today, there are nearly 12,000 German women in uniform on voluntary basis as compulsory military service for women is banned by law. Women constitute almost 6 percent of the total strength.

Some Other Countries

In the Australian Army women are still not allowed in the field/battle. In Russia, women generally serve in nursing, communications and logistic support functions. According to some estimates, their number is close to 95,000. Slovenia became an independent state in 1971 and inducted women in its armed forces soon after. Presently, women account for 18 percent of the total strength of the Slovenian Army.

Like all Islamic states, Pakistan does not permit women in the armed forces. It is feared that women would create distraction and cause disruption of internal order. There is also a great deal of concern for the safety of women from the organisational environment itself.

Major Issues Experienced

Women in all militaries are confronted with social, behavioural and psychological problems at all levels. According to many surveys carried out women are not fully satisfied with the ethos of military profession. Some of the major issues concerning women in all defence forces are discussed below.

Sexual Harassment

This is one single concern that has defied solution so far - how to ensure safety and protect dignity of women in the forces. Almost all women view this as their major fear. The American and the British societies are highly emancipated and liberal with women having equal status in all fields. Yet, the level of sexual harassment of women in their forces is startling (see boxes).
What hurts women most is the attitude of military officials who dismiss complaints as frivolous and due to over-sensitivities of women involved. Even serious accusations of sexual assault are many times treated in a perfunctory manner. Moreover, many officers tend to adopt an attitude of acquiescence by resorting to ‘boys will be boys’ apology. In the US, only two to three percent perpetrators are court-martialled and they are also let off with minimal punishment.

Low Acceptance

Acceptance of women in the military has not been smooth in any country. Every country has to contend with sceptics who consider it to be a counter productive programme. They tend to view it as a political gimmick to flaunt sexual equality, or, at best, a necessary liability.
Additionally, every country has to mould the attitude of its society at large and male soldiers in particular to enhance acceptability of women in the military.

Lack of Job Satisfaction

Most women feel that their competence is not given due recognition. Seniors tend to be over-indulgent without valuing their views. They are generally marginalised and not involved in any major decision-making. They have to work twice as hard as men to prove their worth. Additionally, a woman is always under scrutiny for even minor slip-ups.
Many women complain that despite their technical qualifications, they are generally detailed for perceived women-like jobs. Either they get routine desk work or are asked to perform duties related to social minutiae.

Poor Comfort Level

Most women accepted the fact that their presence amongst males tends to make the environment ‘formal and stiff’. Mutual comfort level between men and women colleagues is low. Men miss their light hearted banter which is considered essential to release work tensions and promote group cohesion. They consider women to be intruding on their privacy.

Doubts about Role Definition

The profession of arms is all about violence and brutality. To kill another human is not moral but soldiers are trained to kill. They tend to acquire a streak of raw ruthlessness and coarseness. This makes the environment highly non-conducive and rough for women. Women, in general, are confused about the way they should conduct themselves. If they behave lady-like, their acceptance amongst male colleagues is low. On the other hand, their active participation in casual repartee carries the danger of their losing colleagues’ respect.

Essential Prerequisites for Smooth Induction of Women

The experience of countries that have inducted women in their armed forces has been mixed. They have had and are still grappling with considerable adjustment problems even in societies that are liberated and profess gender equality.

The profession of arms requires both mental and physical prowess. That is the reason why even advanced countries are wary of inducting women in fighting units. They have been taking precautions to ensure that women are neither pitched against enemy in face-to-face direct combat nor exposed to the risk of capture by the adversary. No wonder then that despite the much touted huge presence of women in US forces in Iraq, there has not been a single woman casualty so far whereas close to 3,000 men have lost their lives. They have been kept sheltered in safe appointments.

It is imprudent to replicate the model or path followed by others. Every nation has to weigh its options against the backdrop of its own social and environmental mores. Every country has its own social/cultural moorings, type of hostilities encountered, level of technology and larger manpower issues. it is now commonly accepted that women should be encouraged to join the services only under the following circumstances:

When a country is short of men or there are not enough men volunteering to join the forces. When the armed forces of a country are technologically very advanced and there is a huge requirement for highly qualified personnel for high-tech support functions. Women can be gainfully employed for the same.
Where societal and cultural ethos have matured to the extent that barriers of gender prejudices have vanished and both sexes have adjusted to the desired level of mutual comfort.

Where militaries are not deployed on active combat duties and are generally assigned comparatively passive tasks. A number of countries like Canada and Australia induct women in their forces as they are aware that they will never be required to participate in an operation at home or abroad.
The above parameters act as a universally accepted benchmark to determine the need and extent of women’s’ employment in the forces.

The Indian Experience

Earlier, entry of women was limited to the Army Medical Corps, the Army Dental Corps and the Military Nursing Service. It was in 1990 that a decision was taken to induct them into the non-combat wings of the armed forces as short-service commissioned service officers. They are inducted into Engineers, Signals, Army Service Corps, Ordnance, Education, Intelligence, Legal Branch and EME (Corps of Electrical and Mechanical Engineers). Presently, the Indian Army counts 2.44 percent women in its ranks, the Indian Navy 3.0 percent and the Indian Air Force 6.7 percent.

The Indian experience has been too short to facilitate conclusive appraisal. The initial feedback has been varied. New insights are being gained into the complete gamut of related issues. Four categories of people are intimately connected with women’s presence in the services – women officers themselves, their commanding officers, colleague male officers and the soldiers. Their views and response should be seriously considered while moulding policies to address all concerns.

Women Officers

Women who are mentally robust, physically fit and highly motivated resent preferential treatment being meted out to them. They want to be treated at par with their male colleagues so that they get a fair opportunity to prove their worth. They demand same selection criteria, same training standards and same work schedules. They do not want to be treated as weaklings as it offends their sensitivities and self-respect. They take exception to some women seeking kid-glove treatment to escape hardships.

However, most of the women opting for a career in the services belong to families where their upbringing has been in a highly sheltered environment. A career in the military is at the other extreme. They admit having limited knowledge of military life at the time of joining. Subsequently, life in the military comes as a big shock to them. While some adapt to it well others find the task to be too daunting. Additionally, many women officers are unsure of their identity - they want to be officers and yet be given the deference of service wives. It has been a cause for despair for many.

Women normally get commissioned at the age of 23 to 25 years. Soon, thereafter, family pressures start building up on them to get married. Many women confess that managing married life with military service is difficult, though marrying a service officer helps. Subsequent pregnancy and motherhood prove very demanding.

Commanding Officers

The first posting of all newly commissioned officers is to their assigned units. It is for the Commanding Officers (COs) to induct, mould and employ them. Therefore, views of COs carry utmost importance as they indicate an objective appraisal of actual position on ground.Most of the COs find women officers to be highly committed and sincere. They admire them for their enthusiasm despite the environmental difficulties faced by them. Safety of women under their command becomes their primary concern and they find it quite taxing, especially in field areas. The second common problem faced by them relates to their useful employment.
CO of an engineer regiment recounted – “My unit was in Punjab when a young lady officer was posted to it. Soon thereafter the unit was ordered to move to insurgency affected Poonch area. I did not know how to employ her and where to house her. Ultimately, I had to send her on long leave to tide over the problem.”

Another CO of a services unit said – “All young officers have to train, exercise and play games with their respective platoons. They are also required to visit troops’ barracks at lights-out to ensure that all mosquito nets are down and even check the cleanliness of latrines. I could not ask or expect the lady officer to do any of these duties”.

By turn, every officer is detailed as a duty officer and has to visit the Quarter Guard and all sentry posts at midnight to ensure their alertness. All unit commanders rue the fact that lady officers cannot be assigned any of these duties. Thus the male officers have to undertake additional work load, which they resent.

Referring to the recent increase in women’s service, some COs pointed out that at 14 years of service a lady officer will be second in command of a unit and will officiate as its commanding officer. In an Engineer or Signal unit she will be an advisor to the Divisional Commander. Without having commanded a platoon or a company and without having attended essential professional courses, it will be unfair to expect her to be able to deliver the goods.

Some COs also expressed concern about the physical fitness of women officers and their being highly prone to back problems, pelvic injuries and stress fractures.

Many COs showed reluctance to have women under them due to concern for their safety and dignity. They also tend to be over-cautious in assigning duties to them lest they be exposed to any harm.

Male Colleagues

Almost all male colleagues admire women officers for their courage and determination. They understand and appreciate challenges faced by them in trying to adapt to an environment which is totally male dominated.

However, they want the women officers to do their share of work and duties. They resent preferential treatment given to their women colleague. One officer was outspoken enough to state – “They have joined the military on the plank of equality of sexes but this plank vanishes the day they join the training academy. Thereafter, they again become the weaker sex needing special dispensations.”

An officer recounted that a lady officer posted to an Ordnance Depot declined to carry out periodic stocktaking of stores lying in isolated sheds unless provided with escort for security. Other officers had to do her job.

When told about women making up shortage of male officers, most young officers scoff at the speciousness of the argument. According to them, there is no shortage of male volunteers to join the services but the required number of candidates do not come up to the standards laid down. The services do not want to dilute the standards even marginally in the fear of compromising the quality of intake. But when it comes to women, standards are reduced to extremely low levels.

In army there is a concept of field and peace postings. Every officer looks forward to a good peace posting to be with his family and sort out family issues. But a large number of peace postings at junior officers’ level are held by the women, thereby depriving male officers of their due share. It has become a sore point with many.

Soldiers

Most soldiers view women’s induction as a fall-out of Government policies and generally take it lightly. They are convinced that women can never lead them effectively. Some Junior Commissioned Officers were blunt enough to state – “An officer, who cannot run with us, cannot train with us and cannot exercise with us can barely be expected to lead us”.

Notwithstanding the above, India is proud of the fact that women in the Indian services are being treated in a manner befitting their dignity and self respect, despite the fact that the Indian soldier is drawn from rustic stock where women to date are confined to household chores. In this regard, India can rightfully claim to have a record which is far better than that of any advanced nation in the world.

The Way Ahead

Every army is but a part of its own people. It reflects a nation’s social, cultural and historical predispositions. Many social scientists call the military a mirror image of a nation or a microcosm. They are of the view that military’s functioning and behaviour are conditioned by the societal influences that the members are exposed to in their formative years prior to joining the military. There is, thus, a need to delve deep into the psychology of soldiers to understand their attitudes. It is only then that an objective study can be carried out of military’s ethos and functioning.

It is a universally accepted fact that militaries are not created to generate employment and hence have nothing to do with gender equality. They are tasked to ensure national defence and that is the sole reason for their existence. They need only the fittest - men or women. Armed forces require personnel who are physically strong and mentally robust to be able to handle battle-field pressures. The fighting potential of a force depends fundamentally on its cohesion, mutual trust and faith in the leadership. Nothing should be done to weaken these traits.

The whole concept of women’s induction in the services has to be viewed in a holistic and objective manner. The first step should be to ascertain whether the required preconditions, as mentioned above, exist to warrant women’s entry into the Indian services. Here is a brief appraisal:

India is not short of male volunteers. India is still a second generation technology force which is trying desperately to graduate to the third generation, whereas the US and the Western nations are already well into the fourth generation. Indian defence forces are manpower intensive needing physical ground effort.
Indian society is passing through a phase of transition from traditionalism to modernity. Societal and cultural ethos continue to be mired in sex discrimination.
A major part of the Indian Army is deployed on combat duties at all times. Peace tenures are rare and there are very few periods of comparative lull.
In view of the above, the following are suggested:
Women must continue to play a dominant role in the Armed Forces Medical Services and the Military Nursing Service. They have done India proud by rising to three-star ranks. Their contribution in providing medical support to the soldiers has been invaluable.

Their expertise, talent and dedication should be profitably utilised in areas which are totally non-combat in nature and where their competence can be fully harnessed. As is being done at present, they should continue to serve in Legal and Education Branches of the services. They could even be considered for the grant of permanent commission at a later date.

A majority of uniformed officers in the Survey of India, Military Engineering Service Militarised Cadre, Director General Quality Assurance and such organisations should be women. The current provision for 14 years service should remain in force.
The current policy of non-induction of women in combat arms should continue. Additionally, their entry into Engineers, Signals, Supply Corps, Ordnance and EME (Electrical and Mechanical Engineers) should be deferred for the time being and reviewed after a few years, once the environment becomes more conducive for their smooth absorption in the organisation.

The services are not opposed to the entry of women per se but demand that a number of crucial issues, as discussed above, be addressed as well. Decisions which have a far reaching effect on the functioning of the armed forces must be taken with due diligence and after a careful study.

Source : Indian Defence Review

Women In The Indian Armed Forces - by Sajita Nair

In the modern world, there are no domains of work that women haven’t delved into. Words such as chairman and cameraman have been rephrased as chairperson and cameraperson, to accommodate women. Many a male dominated work place has crumbled under the power of the woman - her spirit and energy. The Indian Armed Forces, which for long was considered a male dominated workplace, now has confident, bold women, molding into every role and setting examples for everyone. Lieutenant General Puneeta Arora, a lady officer from the Army Medical Corps, heads the prestigious defense institution, the Armed Forces Medical College (AFMC), in Pune. In the land of Razia Sultana and Rani of Jhansi, it comes as no surprise that women make their mark in the Armed Forces.

The Indian armed forces comprises of Army, Navy, Air Force and Coast Guard. The Coast Guard was set up as an Armed Force more recently in 1978. Due to their unique roles as protectors of the nation’s land, sea and airspace respectively, the nature of work in each service is different. Apart from their main roles of defending the country, they may also be required to perform tasks to ease civil administration during times of crisis. The Indian president is the supreme commander of the armed forces. In carrying out the primary role of defending the nation, the armed forces personnel are bound by certain rules that govern their conduct. But, they also enjoy certain privileges that their civilian counterparts do not have access to. Passion for adventure activities and sports can pay off, as one can represent the defense teams and even the country.

Bright, young and energetic men and women make up the bulk of manpower in the armed forces. Recruitment is voluntary, which implies that every citizen of India is eligible to be a part of it, provided he/she fulfils the specified criteria for selection. Caste, region or religion, do not come in the way of the selection process, thereby making it a heterogeneous work place. Personnel retire earlier than many other government sectors, to keep the armed forces team, young and dynamic. Manpower in each of the services is broadly divided into ‘Commissioned officers’, ‘JCO’s (Junior Commissioned Officers)’ and ‘Other Ranks’ based on their qualifications and seniority.

Entry of Women
The role of women in the armed forces for a long time, was limited to the medical profession i.e. doctors and nurses. In 1992, the doors were thrown open for women entry as regular officers in aviation, logistics, law, engineering and executive cadres. Thousands of spirited young women applied against advertisements and it was a turning point in the history of time. These women chose a new field where they had to painstakingly pave a path for the others to follow.

The initial adjustment problems weren’t as much for the women as it was for the men. Wrapped in their tradition of chivalry and respect to women, most gentlemen officers could not treat their female counterparts at par with themselves. Their subordinates too, were men who came from conservative families where they saw women playing only traditional roles. The emergence of these women into totally male dominated bastions did initially create embarrassing moments for both. Men hushed their talks and behaved courteously, while women had to do with makeshift arrangements to suit their needs within units. Over the years and having come a long way now, men have realized that these women in uniform are their efficient and able co-workers. The time is not far when we may use the term ‘sisters-in-arms’ as equivalent to ‘brothers-in-arms’.

Currently, women in the non-medical cadre, serve as Short Service Commissioned (SSC) officers. Under this type of commission, they can serve in the armed forces for a period ranging from 5-14 years. On release they can pursue a career in the civil sector. SSC officers are released with gratuity and can avail some benefits as ex-serviceperson, but they do not get pension. Women in the medical branch i.e. doctors and nurses can serve as Permanent Commissioned (PC) officers and are eligible for pension after retirement. They also have the option to serve as Short Service Commissioned officers.

Eligible women, who qualify various tests successfully, serve as Short Service Commissioned officers in the following branches of the Armed Forces.

ARMY: EME, Signals, Engineers, Army Education Corps, Army Ordnance Corps, Army Service Corps, Intelligence and Judge Advocate General’s branch.

NAVY: All branches of the Navy (except submariners and divers).

AIR FORCE: Flying (transport aircraft and helicopters), Technical and Administration branches.

COAST GUARD: All branches of the Coast Guard.

An Officer and a Lady
In the modern day of electronic warfare, it’s more about overcoming stress in warfare than physical combat. It has been proven scientifically that women handle stress better and are also mentally tougher. This is not to undermine a woman’s physical capability. Women have done extremely well in physical training as well. In the first few batches at the armed forces training academies women displayed more endurance and some even outran their male counterparts in cross-country runs and long distance marches. They carry on this tradition and keep setting new records.

As commissioned officers at the age of 22-23 years, they may often have subordinates older than their parents. Hence, from day one, it is a challenge and leadership qualities are under test. The color of their crisp uniforms and the stars/stripes they adorn differentiate them from each other. Despite the good quality of life, they may sometimes undergo hardships due to the nature of work. An officer may have to work in tough terrains or difficult circumstances. Most women however, who undergo training as cadets in various military academies, cope up with various difficult situations, easily. Being a transferable job, transfers and movements are seen as unique travel opportunities to travel to remotest locations in the country. Every unit is a mini-India with people and cultures as diverse.

As most lady officers are married to gentlemen officers in the armed forces, as per government policies, they are transferred together. Women officers can also avail of maternity leave; furlough and annual leave in succession, to cater to pre and post-natal care. On retirement too, they enjoy medical facilities and coveted club memberships. They can afford to maintain the same quality of life due to the various benefits they can avail of. Their experience and qualities imbibed while in service make them much in demand in the private sector.

Although the path these women have chosen is tough, they have proved that they have the spirit, the courage and the will to carry on. Presently, women do not serve in combat arms nor do they fly fighter aircrafts, but it won’t be long before these forbidden avenues are thrown open to them.

Source : Gateway For India

HAPPY WOMEN`S DAY !!!!!!!!

Sunday, March 8, 2009

From The Archives - Flying Rabbit Modi Yogini

Friday, March 6, 2009

Hold fast to dreams
For if dreams die
Life is a broken winged bird
That cannot fly!

So says the Aero Nodal Centre brochure of the Army Service Corps that Lt Yogini Modi has been flying with. From dandiya to defence is a long way, but two Gujarati girls have traversed the distance and broken precedent to realise their dreams of a career in the Indian Army. Lt Yogini Modi and Lt Vrindaba Gohil are the first in their families to opt for the olive green uniform and needless to say, in these trying times of war, their families are proud of them.

Modi grew up in a business family. Her brothers deal in furniture and Bullet motorcycles. A background not even remotely connected to the Armed Forces. ``The influence probably came from the radical views of our father who was a social worker and Benor Desai, a Parsi girl, her senior in NCC, who also joined the Army,'' says Rajendra Modi, the officer's elder brother.

A student of Gujarat Vidyapith and then CU Shah College, Modi was the best NCC cadet in her batch. ``She was a tough girl. Ever since the Defence Forces opened entry for women officers, she had her mind set on it. Twice she was turned away, but in the third try she made it through the selection procedure,'' says Rajendra.

The Air Force was her first love but the glasses she wore set her back there. Army was the next option and by joining ASC and then opting for microlight flying, Modi managed to put herself firmly in the pilot seat. ``I ran around so much for the microlight that I had myself become ultralite by the time I got it,'' she quips in an article she has contributed for the newsletter of Aero Nodal Centre, a branch of the Army Adventure Wing.

For Lt Vridaba Gohil, an Army Intelligence officer, the inspiration came from seeing her grandfather and IPS officer Prabhatsinh K Jhala in his uniform. ``I will also be like nana, she always used to say,'' recounts her mother Pravinaba. By working hard and securing a distinction in SSC and a first division in 12th standard, Gohil brought herself closer to her goal. She graduated from St Xavier's College, excelled in rifle shooting, participated with her NCC batch at the Republic Day parade in 1991 and after a brief stint with radio journalism joined the Officers' Training Academy in Chennai. The decision was never questioned by Laxmansinh Gohil, her lawyer father, who is proud of her achievement.

Both the officers are planning to continue serving with the Army even after their Short Service Commission period of five years is up. Both are posted in Delhi and if there is a regret, it is only that women officers are not getting a piece of the action at Kargil.

Source: Indian Express Jul 1999, Sainik Samachar

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The Army Marches On Its Stomach

Tradition has always counted in the armed forces, and army kitchens were no exception. The British had set the custom of curries for lunch, but
English food for dinner, and that clearly continued for years after Independence, both in army messes and in army homes............

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The shortest way to a soldier`s heart

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The IAF Mighty Jets Now Have A Woman At The Helm

Squadron Leader Veena Saharan is now the first woman co-pilot on board the IAF mammoth the IL-76 which is believed to weigh almost 200 tonnes when stocked up. This Russian creation is one of the largest and heaviest of the IAF lot and it is no walk in the park to handle this gigantic piece of machinery.

The Physics graduate from Delhi University belongs to Jaipur and is the daughter of an army officer.Having always nurtured the desire to fly, Squadron Leader Veena Saharan will now go through 40 hours of flying the IL-76 and further training to complete her switch over from the AN-32 transport aircraft to the humungous flying machine fondly referred to as Gajraj in IAF circles.

Harleen Chopra of AFMC To Command The Passing Out Parade

Wednesday, March 4, 2009
Would like to know what the Ram Sene has to say about this.

As the country grapples with senseless attacks on women on March 5 2009, Harleen Chopra will become the first ever lady cadet in the glorious history of the armed forces to command the passing out parade of 103 cadets at the Armed Forces Medical College at Pune. Harleen who hails from Ludhiana joined the AFMC in 2004. Harleen follows in on the footsteps on Surg Lt Cdr Wahida Prizm who was the first lady commissioned officer to lead a parade in 2006.

Well I guess women wearing trousers and leading men is acceptable. Wearing noodle straps and having a drink at the pub is not.

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Monday, March 2, 2009
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Sunday, March 1, 2009
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Exams !!!!!!!!!!!

If you are wondering about the relative inactivity on this blog ...its because I am presently studying for my IV Std exams. Well, my daughter`s exams are as good as mine...maybe even worse. I dont remember studying so much when I was a kid.

Hell Hath No Fury...............


A 20-year old semiliterate Afghan woman has taken on the Indian Army after being ditched by one of its officers who married her under false pretences during a posting in her home town of Kabul three years ago. Sabra Khan's persistence has resulted in a preliminary military court ruling that Major Chandrasekhar Pant of the Army Medical Corps be charged with bigamy and converting to Islam without prior official permission.

"I don't want him back in my life," Khan said. "He tried to buy me out of the marriage. I threw the offer back at him, telling him that money cannot buy my love or my forgiveness.

"Now I want him punished."

The 40-year old Indian officer married Khan after he offered to convert from a Hindu to a Muslim, changing his name to Himmat Khan.

But just a fortnight after the wedding Pant returned home, claiming to have been recalled by the Army. Six months later he called Khan and suggested she remarry as he already had a wife and two children. Khan travelled to the small hill town of Pithoragarh in the Himalayas where Pant worked and confronted him. He offered her money but she turned it down, choosing instead to fight for justice.

Sources : The New Zealand Herald
Justice For Sabra Ahmadzai